When you start thinking “I need a friend,” it’s an important moment in your social life. It’s a sign that you don’t have a friend that you can talk to or confide in. You shouldn’t waste that moment by distracting yourself. Instead, it’s time you take real steps to find, and make friends with people who can become close friends with you.
As a society, I think we cherish individualism and heroism too much; and it’s making us lonely. As I say in my book, it’s in our culture.
If you’re shy, or socially inhibited, you may find yourself often wondering what other people think of you. Actually, you have no way of really knowing what these people think of you. Unless you hang out with them. In this article, I want to share with you what they think of shy and lonely people.
Overcome shyness and your social life will improve greatly. For you to stop being shy, you need to learn what shyness is.
No matter how successful and smart you are, loneliness makes you think you don’t deserve to be around people. It makes you think you’ll always get rejected by people. That’s insane. But it’s really what happens. And you can break out of it.