“Could It Really Be Possible That Problems With Loneliness, Shyness, Social Anxiety And Inability To Have Conversations, And Make Friends GET WORSE As YOU GET OLDER?”

Sadly, the answer is YES… but it’s NOT because you’re meant to be alone for life… or even because you’re not a good and valuable person. Read on to discover the reason why so many people end up lonely, crippled by shyness, unable to make good conversation, and cause potential friends to REJECT them… or even humiliate them and talk behind their backs.

Dear Friend,

Let me ask you a couple of questions…

  • Have you ever felt that it is a possibility that you end up lonely and isolated for the rest of your life?
  • Have you ever felt that everyone you knew in life just forgot about you and now, you’re on your own?
  • Have you ever made friends with someone and then have them decide to NOT SEE YOU anymore for no logical reason whatsoever?
  • Have you ever found people get BORED by talking to you because you quickly RAN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY?
  • Have you ever been unable to go to a party that you would LOVE to attend because the shyness in you prevented and scared you from going?
  • Have you ever avoided a social situation, just to avoid any possibility of being rejected and humiliated in front of a group of people?
  • Have you ever spent your birthday or a holiday ALONE? …or both in the same year?
  • Have you ever suspected that the people that you know are AWARE that you have no friends?
  • Have you ever felt that you’re totally removed from social life? And you started doubting that there MUST be something deeply wrong with you?
  • Have you ever dated someone you LOVED at first sight and have them DUMP you quickly once they discover what your (social) life looks like?

Shyness and Social Anxiety Seem Like A Prison With No Way Out… I’ve been there

I had all the socially awkward symptoms. I felt lonely, shy, and filled with social anxiety. I couldn’t hold a conversation to save my life. I was the last person you could ever call “Cool” or “Interesting”. I had NO IDEA how to make friends. And I couldn’t even DREAM of having a couple of friends, let alone a GROUP of friends.

Let’s face it, they don’t teach us this stuff at school. If you’re shy what should you do? If you have no friends or not the kind of friends that make you happy, what should you do? Give up?

After a few google searches you’ll find advice that is so broad and imprecise that you would have NO IDEA how to start.

You can even read Dale Carnegie’s book “How to make friends and influence people” but you won’t know EXACTLY what to do today to make new friends.

This was a big deal for me. I spent 15 years studying social interaction, human behavior, and psychology. I tried every piece of advice that I could get my hands on, even had to import some old books from Austria that never made it to amazon.com and no one knows about.

I was looking for the KEY FACTORS that make the difference between those who attract great friends, while others get ignored, rejected, or even humiliated. I started to implement those factors, I got rid of some of my problems with social awkwardness and started making some friends here and there. 

But at first, it seemed like it’s going to take FOREVER.

The “A-HA!” moment that changed everything for me

At one point, I stopped relying on the theories I found in books. I started to look for people who have lots of friends in the REAL WORLD.

I started watching them and getting to know some of them. At first, I was very intimidated. Then I started to see patterns between what I saw and what I learned by myself.

When I combined those two sources of knowledge, things started rolling… and FAST.

By combining experts’ advice and “street-smarts” techniques… I started making friends FAST. I started to see WHY I needed to build a social circle and how popular people do it in a matter of weeks.

This happened mostly when they just moved to my city and I got to know them. A couple of weeks were enough for them to make more friends that I could gather up in a YEAR.


It’s A Process Of 7 Parts That They Do Not Teach You At School

  1. You have to recognize FULLY that you’re a social human being, no matter what experiences you went through. You’re a human, therefore you ARE social and NEED friends; even more friends than you think you need, just to have that optimal feeling that we call “happy”.
  2. When you get in a lonely state, you need to be able to get OUT of it fast. Most people mistake loneliness for depression and end up running in circles for years. Loneliness can get you in a complex dilemma where you crave social connection… but you don’t feel like socializing AT ALL.
  3. You gotta know how to turn the table on shyness and social anxiety. They are “tricky” problems that SEEM to be a part of who you are… until you know how to solve them!
  4. Conversation is the basis of all social skills. You need to learn the essential tricks to start conversations, make quick connections, hold people’s attention, keep a conversation going, make people talk to each other, and talk with a whole group of people. HINT: You need to do it RIGHT, most people do it in an amateur way that prevents them from meeting new people and keeps them “stuck” with the friends they always had.
  5. You need the social skills of a socially savvy person. The best part is that they’re LEARNABLE. These include how to be outgoing and talkative, how to be “COOL”, how to be interesting and not bore people away, how to be FUN and joke around with people, avoid socially awkward mistakes, and last but not least: add some simple-to-manage social activities to your life, that are FUN and INTERESTING.
  6. The MASTER SKILL: Making friends. If you take time to learn this and know what to do SPECIFICALLY to make friends, then you’re a lucky one! It involves knowing the right places to find friends, making conversations that make them want to be your friend, getting their contact information, staying in touch, meeting them again and having a lot of fun, and deepening the friendship to turn “casual friends” into “close and loyal friends”.
  7. You have to know how to build a circle of friends. Once you start doing that, you’ll get more and better friends FASTER, you’ll have many fun and interesting social experiences (trips, parties, etc.) and… because other people are involved in your group, they DO MOST OF THE WORK TO CREATE THOSE EXPERIENCES. Your social life becomes exciting but you barely have to do any “work” on it. As a side-effect, if you’re single, you also get to meet some of the most attractive people you can go on dates with.

These seven parts aren’t just easy to learn and put into action,… they’re also INSANELY FUN to learn.

How Can YOU Overcome shyness and loneliness, Master Conversation and Social Skills and Make friends?

Well, before I give you the answer, let me tell you about what has been happening lately…

Back in the day, I had all the awkward symptoms, the loner habits, the unattractive qualities a person can have… I know how it all feels like.

I interviewed a lot of guys and girls that not only had more friends than they could ever keep up with, but also had lots of deep and meaningful friendships with people who would stand beside them, no matter what.

I got many times into a situation where I had ZERO friends and had to do it all over again… I didn’t know how to build a social circle and fell on my face repeatedly and saw my circle of friends blow up in front of my eyes, it happened to me also when I needed to move to new places, I had to start from scratch.

I studied social behavior, psychology, human motivation for the last 15 years and tried many models of improving social life and making friends. I stripped it down and kept only what worked CONSISTENTLY in the REAL WORLD.

I did research about loneliness, shyness and social anxiety that took me a couple of years and I finally understood what these things are made out of so I can get rid of them for good.

My friends that are experts in self-improvement and sales always encouraged me to write a book or do seminars, and even invited me to speak at a self-improvement conference in a major city. At first, I didn’t really realize that I could share this stuff.

Now, let’s get back to YOU and YOUR social success.

If YOU’RE READY to overcome shyness, get rid of loneliness, start making conversations that make you friends, then you’re in the right place.

Are you ready to get a couple of close friends that stay loyal to you? Are you ready to have a fun social life, full of friends and great social activities? Are you ready to get your own social circle and enjoy Parties, Celebrations, Trips, and Birthday Parties that most of your relatives and old friends could NOT EVEN DREAM OF?

Yes? Good!

“Get The Friends You Want” ebook – or how to overcome shyness and loneliness, learn conversation and social skills, and make friends

I spent several months condensing all the techniques that worked for me, my friends, and my friends’ clients. These techniques are the KEY to having the friends you want and avoiding loneliness and rejection.

I put them out in an ebook format. I did that so you could either print it, or read it in your favorite device. I wrote it like a reference manual. You can literally jump to any section and start learning new techniques you can use TODAY.

The first three chapters are all about how to OVERCOME THE LIMITING stuff : Loneliness, Shyness, Social Anxiety, and Feelings of Being Removed from the social world

The fourth and fifth chapters are about SOCIAL SKILLS : We begin with Conversation and how to master it and go on to learn other CRUCIAL social skills.

The sixth and seventh chapters are about making friends (how to go from zero friends to 10, 20, or a 100 friends) and how to build all that into a social circle that makes it easy for you to keep up with.

It’s a downloadable ebook, you can GET IT NOW and start to learn stuff like this :

Part 1: Overcome Loneliness, Shyness, and Social Anxiety

  • How you still vitally need friends, in this modern age, where live social interaction is mistakenly taken for granted. – page 8
  • You’ll (finally) be able to make sense of what other people do, socially: why they laugh at some things and not others, befriend some people and not others, go out to some places and not others, dress a certain way and not another. – page 11
  • You’ll know the 8 motivators that get people to behave socially the way they do. Once you know this, you’ll basically CRACK THE CODE that’s behind people’s social behaviors. – page 11
  • Why some people get REJECTED while others get CHASED. You’ll also know what to do about it so you avoid being rejected by the friends you need. – page 14
  • You’ll know why people keep ignoring loners, instead of cheering them up. (it’s about a specific behavior that loners have, that drives good people away) – page 16
  • You’ll be able to construct a vision for your social success. After going through this part, your social success will be as clear to you as a puzzle with all the pieces in place. You’ll be more ready to go for it than ever. – page 17
  • You’ll get to know why it sometimes feels WEIRD to try and be social. And how to unplug that unnatural feeling. – page 20
  • You’ll know how you’ll be able to make friends and STAY INTROVERTED IF YOU WANT. This book is not intended to change your nature. You can stay introverted if you want and keep all the little habits that you love to do by yourself. This part will show you how. – page 22
  • Socializing and being more social requires a particular kind of motivation, it’s different from regular motivation that is intended to “achieve goals”… in page 23, we’ll talk about exactly how to stay motivated for socializing.
  • You’ll understand how loneliness works, so you can quickly get rid of it. – page 27
  • You’ll be able to avoid the awkward behavior that can cause people to reject you and move on to make friends with others. – page 28
  • You’ll know why lonely people generally FAIL to make friends, even if they try their hardest, and what to do about it. – page 31
  • You’ll know how to snap out of the negativity and depression that loneliness can get you in. – page 30
  • How to be “ready” to make friends now, even if you’ve been lonely for several years. – page 30
  • Technology, which is supposed to connect us, can be a trap that makes us even more lonely and isolated. This book will teach you how to make friends using the power of technology while preventing it from making you even more isolated. – page 34
  • You’ll learn how to overcome shyness and social anxiety. – page 37
  • How to do what shyness used to prevent you from doing: Talk to strangers, Stand up for yourself, reclaim respect from others, express your opinion, Go out in public and feel perfectly confident, normal, and social, be able to go out to social gatherings, feel perfectly okay, as if you were “at home”, and be able to talk to anyone there. You’ll also learn to feel great at parties you’re invited to, even if you want to go by yourself. – page 39
  • You’ll learn a trick to eliminate social rejection: first, we eliminate the fear of rejection, then how to detect it before it happens, and what to do so you’re never rejected by potential friends.– page 40
  • You’ll discover the shocking truth about the social scene only the popular and “insanely-socially-successful” people know. This stuff will make you much more powerful and confident as you will “know what’s going on” and can’t be intimidated. – page 43
  • You’ll know what popular people think of shy people and why that information is a HUGE opportunity to make new friends – page 43
  • You’ll know what people think of you when they see you and how much time it takes them to decide whether or not you’re cool or interesting. – page 44
  • What people think of someone when they see them making a socially awkward mistake… and what you can do to make your social mistakes (if they ever happen) seem almost invisible and go unnoticed to people around you. – page 45
  • Popular people don’t like all the shy and reserved people, BUT,… they LOVE one SPECIFIC kind of shy or reserved people because of one SPECIFIC behavior. These “special shy people” have an attitude that you NEED TO KNOW. – page 46
  • How to use your beliefs, emotions, and body language to make yourself more open to talking to people and making friends, instead of shying away and hiding from people. – page 53
  • How to almost instantly change the negative beliefs that you KNOW are holding you back. – page 54
  • An effective technique to practice social skills, without risking embarrassment or rejection. – page 56

Whenever you’re ready…

Part 2: Master Conversation and Social Skills

  • You’ll learn how to talk confidently, whether or not you were confident in the past. – page 63
  • How to start conversations with strangers and make them feel like you’re someone they know well. – page 64
  • Why some conversation starters work, while others don’t and what’s the difference that makes the difference. – page 66
  • How to hold someone’s attention when you first meet them. – page 67
  • How to start and end conversations as you please without coming across as rude and unfriendly. – page 67
  • How to know what’s stopping you from talking for as long as you want and how to free yourself from these things and make conversations last as long as you want. – page 68
  • How to keep a conversation going, and never run out of things to say, without having to “work” at it. – page 70
  • There are some specific topics to talk about at FIRST, that make other people want to get to know you and make friends with you. Learn about them on page 72
  • How to use other people’s stories in your own conversations in a way that makes you sound interesting, even if those stories have nothing to do with you. – page 73
  • How to go from subject to subject, potentially forever. And to draw the link between conversation topics, no matter unrelated they seem to be. – page 74
  • A universal technique used and shared by Dale Carnegie (in 1930’s) that is SO good that it still works today. This technique makes anyone you talk to want to stick around and share more about themselves. At the end of the conversation, they won’t feel that they talked more than you. Instead they’ll think that you’re an amazing conversationalist, even if THEY were doing most of the talking. Grab this technique on page 75.
  • How to USE silence in conversation to make everyone feel comfortable and optimistic, instead of feeling awkward. – page 76
  • A quick way to practice small talk. This will make you do small talk much better than average people. (you can do this the very next time you get out of the house) – get it on page 76
  • How to make two people that you know, talk to each other, so you won’t have to do all the talking. That will also enable you to walk away and talk to someone else if you want. – page 77
  • How to have conversations in a group in a way that makes you QUICKLY FIT IN. And how to AVOID being interrupted and make the people in the group like you on the first day you show up. – page 78
  • How to get in the mood for conversation, get talkative and be more outgoing. This works even if you had a bad day and even if you spent a whole week not talking to anyone. It makes you snap back to a social mode. – page 79
  • Some people seem to attract the most amount of friends. Everyone wants to be friends with them and that’s because everyone sees them as “cool”. You’ll learn WHAT the elements behind “coming across as cool”. You can start integrating those elements in your life today, and attract more friends. Learn it on page 82
  • How to be funny and fun to be around, so people like you and crave your presence. – page 92
  • What to NEVER do, when making a funny joke. I call this section “humor do’s and don’ts”… some of these mistakes can have the opposite effect (they repel people), so we have to be careful. Learn more on page 96
  • The 44 worst socially awkward mistakes you need to STOP DOING RIGHT NOW. They weird people out and make them want to get the hell out of there ASAP. – page 97
  • How to come across as interesting and avoid coming across as a boring person. – page 101
  • How to not only be interesting but come across as interesting to the specific friends you would love to hang out with – page 101
  • How to become interesting in the long run (for life) on page 102
  • How to get your life to be MORE FUN, without “sweating at it”. – page 102
  • How to make fun plans in seconds, instead of minutes or hours. Without too much preparation, you’ll be able to make plans ON-THE-SPOT. – page 104
  • How to make fun social plans, even when you have NO MOTIVATION to do so. (it’s so easy, you don’t need to be “motivated” to get it done) – page 105
  • How to have other people see you as a FUN-and-INTERESTING person – page 104
  • How to have people recognize that you have a fun life and get excited when they call them to hang out. – page 104
  • How to discover and organize new social activities that you weren’t aware of. And do it in a way that doesn’t take much time. Best of both worlds: Having time for what you like to do on your own and having time to chill and have fun with friends. – page 107
  • How to know what fun and interesting events are taking place in your city and never miss out on them. – page 106
  • How to do lots of social activities, without really spending BIG BUCKS or blowing out through your savings, nor getting into debt… – page 107
  • How to deal with friends that smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs in a way that lets you hang out with them if you want without ever feeling “pressured” to do use these substances yourself. – page 108

Part 3: Make Friends and Build Your Social Circle

  • You’ll know how important it is to KEEP finding new friends, no matter how many friends you know, now. Friends tend to disappear from your life and that makes you obligated to constantly making friends with new people. – page 111
  • How to meet friends in the places and areas that you already pass by every day, without realizing all the opportunities to meet new people. – page 111
  • How to turn a colleague into a friend, so they can start making friends, before even leaving the office. – page 112
  • If you’re in college, you’ll get to know how to take advantage of all the opportunities of thousands of new potential friends, instead of being intimidated by the crowd – page 113
  • How to meet new friends through the people you already know, even if you never thought of them as a potential “source” of new people that you can be friends with – page 114
  • Why you should NEVER miss a birthday party, why it’s the easiest occasion to meet new friends, and how to make friends once you get there. – page 114
  • How to meet new people in places you’ve never considered going to. Places like charity events, expat events, pet-related-events, professional events, free seminars and conventions, cultural events, etc. – page 115
  • How to join groups of interest that make it easy for you to make friends and how to make friends, once you join. By the way, you don’t even have to commit to any particular group of interest. – page 117
  • How to turn a “social media friend” into a Real Friend. – page 117
  • How to concentrate on just a few friends on social media that will make all the difference in your life. You don’t have to keep up with more than 10 to 30 friends that are the MOST important. We’ll also talk about how to select who goes in that category.
  • How to quickly make friends in online forums and meet them in real life. You can do it faster than average people think possible. These forums can be about something you really love to talk about, so you’ll get friends that have the same interests/hobbies as you. We’ll talk about HOW to do it on page 118.
  • How to start friendships right: how to make conversations that create friendships out of a random encounter. – page 119
  • How to break psychological barriers that exist between strangers and make everyone feel comfortable about getting to know each other. – page 119
  • How to quickly know if someone would make a good friend or not. This saves you time by avoiding people who are a bad match for you and won’t make you happier, instead, they just take up space and you won’t have time to make the friends that you’ll have BIG fun with. – page 119
  • Once you meet someone that could make a great friend, you need to know what to talk about and what to do to make them want to be friends with you. Learn that on page 120.
  • How to make someone feel an instant connection with you, as soon as you start talking to them. – page 121
  • How to keep in touch with all the friends that you have and want to hang out with AND all the new friends that you will be making in the upcoming weeks, after reading the book. – page 122
  • How to get people to think of you often instead of forgetting about you. They’ll remember you even if they won’t see you every day. It also doesn’t require more than a few minutes each day. – page 123
  • Learn how to ask people to join you in your plans, in a way that makes them say YES, almost every time. – page 124
  • How to ask someone to join you in your fun plans in a way that avoids all possible rejection.. (popular people do this a lot, by the way) – page 124
  • How to get people to invite you out to their fun plans, without being pushy or obvious about it – page 124
  • How to turn a “casual friend” into a real and close friend – page 125
  • On page 125, we’re gonna talk about the experiences you’ll have with your new friends. The sooner you have these experiences, the sooner you’ll “click” together and become close friends.
  • How to make someone believe that you’re a “formless” friend, that means that they can take you and suggest all kinds of plans and social activities to you, not just one. – page 126
  • What topics to talk about with a “casual friend” to turn them into a “close friend”. – page 127
  • How to make people want to see you again, and again, and again. And how to avoid the mistakes that make people get tired of seeing you (even some popular people fall into these mistakes) – page 129
  • What kind of attitude to have and how to use it, to have people be glad they met you, respect you, and never “take you for granted”. – page 129
  • How to keep a friendship for a long time and make someone continue to want to see you, even if you’ve been friends for a long time. – page 131
  • You’ll know why you absolutely need a social circle and why it’s better than just having a few friends. You’ll know how making friends is much easier once you start to build your social circle. – page 135
  • A social circle is the BEST and EASIEST way to meet a great significant other or just meet many great people you can date. You’ll learn how to benefit from it on page 136.
  • Why having a social circle will make you have parties and celebrations that you’ll remember, till the rest of your life. – page 136
  • Why not having a social circle, can potentially result in you having crappy birthday parties or no birthday parties at all, just hanging out alone at the house… it can also get you to have the same crappy and lonely experiences on Christmas, Thanksgiving, and other occasions. – page 136
  • You’ll learn why a social circle requires a lot less work than most people think. And how to make that work for you. – page 137
  • You’ll learn about the elements or “pillars” of building a social circle – page 137
  • You’ll learn to build a social circle before you get into a situation where you absolutely need it (say, you meet a new date and they introduce you to their friends and then expect you to do the same,… they can be disappointed to find out that you don’t have a circle of friends) – page 138
  • How to introduce people to each other in a way that makes them respect you more, be glad they’re friends with you, and become more loyal to you. – page 138
  • How to get people to introduce other people to you, so you will be making new friends without any effort. – page 138
  • How to stop having friends that don’t know each other and have friends that know each other… this helps you stay in touch with everyone much easier, everyone will remember you and you won’t have to do all the calls and all the planning. – page 139
  • How to connect with VERY popular people (or “connectors”) who have a constant flood of new people in your life, so you can pick and choose who to be friends with. – page 140
  • These people are very special and only make friends with people in certain conditions. that’s because A LOT of people want to be friends with them already. They filter people pretty fast and everyone is intimidated by them.
  • How to skip all that clutter and connect with them in a way that you’ll stop, notice you with attention, and want you to absolutely be part of their group.
  • I’ll also teach how to be best friends with these guys. Remember, I learned a lot about the social world, just by hanging out with them. –page 141
  • How to start a social circle from scratch, even if you have ZERO friends right now, even if you JUST moved to a new city. – page 143
  • How to join an established group of friends that “seem” to be impenetrable and fit in, the first time you get with them. – page 144
  • How to successfully date people in your social circle. Remember, people who have trouble finding great dates are very often exactly the people who don’t have a large circle of friends, and they think they need to get “dating advice” to solve it. – page 144

Now, How can you know if this book is for YOU?

If you already have more friends than you can keep up with, then you probably don’t need this book. If you have no fear of rejection, feel no shyness when talking to people and you DON’T ever feel lonely, then you don’t need it. Also if you never happen to run out of things to say and people always describe you as “cool” and “interesting” and crave your presence, maybe you don’t need this. And if you already have your social circle making your life very enjoyable every day, then you probably don’t need this book.

On the other hand, there are certain sticky problems that people have when it comes to socializing that get worse with time. Read through the list below. If you find that you’ve experienced any one of these problems, I highly recommend you grab this ebook now.

However, if while you are reading through this list you realize that you’ve experienced more than one of these problems that are almost impossible to shake, you need to get this program immediately.

  • If you’re feeling lonely these days or if you’ve always felt lonely and isolated.
  • If you have the feeling that you don’t belong in the social world
  • If you’re shy or hesitant when it comes to interacting with people
  • If you have trouble talking to people and keeping conversations going
  • If you don’t know how to come across as interesting and cool to the friends you want
  • If you have no friends or want to add new friends to your life
  • If you want to make friends of better quality and you’re sick and tired of some losers that you know
  • If you have trouble having or creating a fun (social) life, and all your efforts to do so end up failing
  • If you have never built a social circle for yourself that was awesome enough that the friends in it stayed in it for more than two months
  • If you happen to make friends, but they end up either turning out to be unreliable jerks or wander off and start calling you less and less
  • If you know people but NOBODY ever calls you to go out and do something fun and social
  • If you’re overwhelmed with anxiety, every time you’re about to have a social interaction
  • If you feel that people will reject all your attempts to try and make friends with them
  • If you just moved to a new city, or want to start your social life from scratch in your current city
  • If you just joined college and don’t know how you will make friends
  • If you have a job that takes all your time and you think that you’re maybe missing out on having a decent social life full of friends
  • If you just lost a friend or a couple of friends, for any reason, and now you feel that they left a void in your life
  • If you just broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and now you figure that you’re on your own and feel like crap about it
  • If you just broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and want to get over them ASAP by meeting some friendly people that will cheer you up
  • If you always wanted to meet new friends by you don’t know where or how
  • If you’ve already tried making friends in the past, but it was so overwhelming and disorganized that you gave it up
  • If you want to make friends and get out of your loneliness, but at the same time you have no motivation to go out and meet people
  • If you’re lonely and yet, don’t feel like going out and meeting people
  • If you’re spending too much time online trying to contact people, but you end up with no real friends
  • If you fear that popular people can reject or even humiliate you if you try and become their friends or even go to the places they go to
  • If you logically know that you need to go meet people but you feel so bad and anxious in your body that you can’t bear it and always end up staying home
  • If you are hesitant and doubtful when you talk to people that they see no point in making conversations with you
  • If you come across good potential friends but have no idea how to start a conversation with them, maintain it and get their contact information
  • If you always had trouble with small talk
  • If you’re sick of having awkward silences over and over and having it damage any chances of you making some interesting friends
  • If you can make good conversations one-on-one, but always have trouble making conversation within a group of people
  • If you become silent and intimidated when you’re inside or close to a crowd of people
  • If you know you can have great conversations, but have trouble getting in a talkative mood when you meet the people you would love to be friends with and miss out on the opportunity
  • If you have trouble being fun and making jokes with people
  • If you happen to come across as awkward or weird with people
  • If you already know how to make friends, but have trouble keeping in touch with them

I can’t judge for you, but if you really NEED this information, then you probably already know that.

Chances are, this book holds THE KEY you need to overcome what’s blocking you from having the amazing social life you DESERVE.

What makes this book different

  1. It addresses the problem from all angles. It’s not about ONE PART of what you need, it’s about ALL THAT YOU NEED : from overcoming the blocking emotions, to learning the critical social skills, to making friends and having a social circle.
  2. It’s not about “general advice” or “best practices”. It’s about EXACTLY what to do, where to go, and what to talk about in order to make the friends.
  3. It’s not complex. There are no psychological concepts that only a therapist can understand. It’s written in simple language, and that’s why it’s directly applicable in the real world.

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Learn the ONLY way to:

  • Overcome Loneliness and Shyness
  • Master Conversation and Important Social Skills
  • Learn To Make Friends and Build a Social Circle

155 pages of directly applicable information

BONUS #1: Free Audio version of the book
BONUS #2: Free Session from my Advanced Social Skills Training

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Get The Friends You Want Audiobook

If you’d rather listen to the book than read, we’d like to offer you that option as well. When you order the eBook, you’ll get the audiobook version for FREE. You can listen to it right on your smartphone (iPhone or Android), computer or any music player.

To get started, click the “Download Now” button above.

Don’t decide now, try it for 60 days THEN decide if you’re going to keep it.

I know you’ll love this ebook. That’s why I’m enabling you to return it in 60 days if you decide that you don’t like it.

If you’re not 100% satisfied with the results you’re gonna get from this ebook, all you have to do is drop me an email and I’ll refund all your money. No questions asked.

About Your Bonus #2

If you invest in the Get The Friends You Want eBook right now, you’ll also get a free training session from my “Advanced Social Skills Training.” Which I’ll tell you about in a moment.

When I was first starting on the path to success with friends and in social life, one of the most important things I did was to explore and master the different areas of social success, separately and in-depth. It actually saved what I estimate to be years of time and effort.

And that’s why I researched, studied, and tried everything I could find on each important area, one by one. (Overcoming Hesitation, Mastering Conversations, Mastering Friendship, and much more) I ended up with “blocks” of information and wisdom on EACH area. With that information, I made a monthly audio series to share each one of them with you.

And now, I’m gonna give you a one-month free subscription to this Advanced Social Skills Training, as a bonus, just for trying out my ebook. If you love it, which, I know you will, just keep it and you’ll stay subscribed, and every month, I’ll send you another training session, another audio session + exercises that I crafted personally, and you’ll automatically be charged only $19.95.

You can cancel anytime you want; no questions, no hassles. If you get the training session and you don’t love it, you can cancel, and KEEP the bonus session, for free. In other words, you get to keep the bonus, either way, even if you cancel right after you access it and pay nothing.

Now, if you prefer not to receive this awesome bonus, which is worth 20 bucks all by itself, just make sure that the opt-in box is unchecked during your order process. And you’ll get my book all by itself. It’s that easy.

Here is what to look for, down the road

If you apply what’s in the book, soon enough you’ll find yourself in a situation that looks like this :

  • A group of Close friends
  • A Wide range of friends
  • Lots of fun and laughter lot in your life, with your friends
  • Amazing and unforgettable experiences, trips, parties, get-togethers, etc.
  • Awesome birthday parties, celebrations and holidays
  • Great summer vacations with friends
  • Meet lots of available hot dates through friends
  • Always having fun plans, either that you organize or other people invite you to, or just to do with friends on the spot
  • Your whole family and old friends get completely amazed by your social life

I can’t say when. These things may happen a few days after you finish the book… within the first couple of weeks… or several months down the road, but it will happen. I guarantee it.

Don’t let another day go by. Make the decision right now to create this new life for yourself… and don’t let anything stop you from achieving your dreams.

Get The Friends You Want eBook


Learn the ONLY way to:

  • Overcome Loneliness and Shyness
  • Master Conversation and Important Social Skills
  • Learn To Make Friends and Build a Social Circle

155 pages of directly applicable information

BONUS #1: Free Audio version of the book
BONUS #2: 
Free Session from my Advanced Social Skills Training

Purchase Policies

BONUS: Get The Friends You Want audiobook

Get The Friends You Want Audiobook

If you’d rather listen to the book than read, we’d like to offer you that option as well. When you order the eBook, you’ll get the audiobook version for FREE. You can listen to it right on your smartphone (iPhone or Android), computer or any music player.

To get started, click the “Download Now” button above.


– Paul Sanders

PS. This ebook will teach you EXACTLY what to do to make friends and eliminate any chance of you being alone forever. It will make you prevent people from Rejecting you. And it will teach you how to make people like you instead of judging you. Don’t hesitate… get this ebook now. You won’t be disappointed.

Customer Feedback

I was lonely one year ago after moving to a new town… It felt as though I had come here from another planet. There are many books, blogs, coaches, therapists, etc., out there who all have advice on making friends. Talk about overwhelming fluff! This book was different because I felt I was really given some true friendship secrets. Now it all makes sense and this socializing stuff seems like something I can be successful with again. Thank you, Paul.”

Jim, Denver, CO

I am a leadership coach and therapist… and I have to say I have learned more about adult friendships from Paul than I did in most of my 12 years of schooling. I would highly recommend this book to any adult who feels the need to get the friends they want in life. I had almost decided that friendship in the modern world was a lost cause and I would just be happier alone in life, but now I see that this genuine socializing thing is doable! I wish I had known about this 20 years ago.”

Maya, San Antonio, TX

Paul seems to deeply understand social interactions, given his vast experience and meticulous research. Having read his book now I know that he is really genuine and honest and really cares about helping people develop true friendships. This book changed my social life forever, and now I can even teach my kids how to be social instead of lonely. To think that just a few months ago, my biggest fear was dying alone! I right now have the confidence to make friends whenever I want, and wherever I go. And I do it on my own terms, I don’t settle for whatever is out there.”

Trish, Bakersfield, CA


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Get The Friends You Want eBook


Learn the ONLY way to:

  • Overcome Loneliness and Shyness
  • Master Conversation and Important Social Skills
  • Learn To Make Friends and Build a Social Circle

155 pages of directly applicable information

BONUS #1: Free Audio version of the book
BONUS #2: Free Session from my Advanced Social Skills Training

Purchase Policies

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