Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
Interview with Steve Cessario, founder of Loopward.com

Interview with Steve Cessario, founder of Loopward.com

I recently had the chance to interview with Steve Cessario, the mind behind Loopward.com. His website offers essential guidance for those aiming to overcome social anxiety and enhance their conversational...

How To Make Friends

How To Make Friends

Knowing how to make friends is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. No matter who you are, how old you are, what you do, or...

What It Means To Be A Social Butterfly (& How To Be One)

What It Means To Be A Social Butterfly (& How To Be One)

You may have heard the term “social butterfly” before. You don’t know what it necessarily means, but you know it’s good in terms of socializing. If you’ve thought this, then...

22 Ways To Improve Your Social Intelligence

22 Ways To Improve Your Social Intelligence

You can become the socially adept person you want to be by improving your social intelligence. Social intelligence is an aspect everyone has. Unfortunately, not everyone knows what it is....

How To Stop Being Socially Awkward

How To Stop Being Socially Awkward

Being socially awkward is a very common issue. For a lot of people, it’s the main hurdle they need to overcome to make new friends. Despite being very common, social...

What Is Tough Love? (How To Tell It Like It Is)

What Is Tough Love? (How To Tell It Like It Is)

Everybody needs tough love every once in a while. There are instances where there are things that need to be said so that a friend can hear what they need...

What To Do If You Constantly Feel Disappointed In Friends

What To Do If You Constantly Feel Disappointed In Friends

It’s completely normal to feel disappointed in your friends every once in a while. Nobody is perfect, after all, and it’s unfair of us to expect anything otherwise. However, it...

How To Know If You Have A Dry Personality (& What To Do About It)

How To Know If You Have A Dry Personality (& What To Do About It)

Having a dry personality is terrible for your social life. With this, you won’t be able to attract strangers and turn them into friends, and the ones you already have...

12 Ways to Stop Bragging

12 Ways to Stop Bragging

You’ll want to stop bragging when socializing with friends or meeting new people. It’s only normal to share your achievements, stories of travel, and good news with your friends and...

16 Ways To Stop Oversharing

16 Ways To Stop Oversharing

You can improve your conversational skills drastically, and your social life as a whole, if you can stop oversharing. A lot of us tend to be way too excited when...