Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
What To Do If You Have A Flaky Friend

What To Do If You Have A Flaky Friend

A lot of us have at least one flaky friend, as unfortunate as that sounds. Flaky friends, to those who aren’t aware of the term, are those who cancel plans...

What to do If You Don’t Like Parties

What to do If You Don’t Like Parties

If you don’t like parties, then find comfort in the fact that you’re not alone in feeling this. As amazing and energizing as parties are for a lot of people,...

12 Ways To Not Come Off As Desperate

12 Ways To Not Come Off As Desperate

To come off as desperate in any social situation is a very dangerous impression to make. It is something you want to avoid at all costs if you want to...

How To Properly Make Female Friends

How To Properly Make Female Friends

If you want to make female friends, this article is going to be helpful for you. A lot of people believe the process of becoming friends with a male person...

How to Know If You’re Antisocial Or Just Introverted

How to Know If You’re Antisocial Or Just Introverted

To know if you’re antisocial or just introverted is vital if you currently find it difficult to make friends. There’s a massive difference between the two, of course, but unfortunately,...

How to Pick Up On Social Cues

How to Pick Up On Social Cues

Understanding social cues and being able to read them is a skill every socially adept person has. If you want to be socially adept, you’ll need to learn how to...

15 Ways to Deal With Awkward Situations

15 Ways to Deal With Awkward Situations

Everybody hates awkward situations. They’re embarrassing at best, and outright traumatizing at worst. Not a lot of people know how to deal with awkward situations properly, but socially adept individuals...

Things You Can Do If You Don’t Fit In

Things You Can Do If You Don’t Fit In

Do you ever get the feeling that you just don’t fit in anywhere, regardless of which group you are with? You’ve been surrounded by multiple groups throughout the years, but...

What To Do If You Can’t Relate To People

What To Do If You Can’t Relate To People

If you can’t relate to people, then you have a problem that’s pretty common amongst socially inept people. Finding a common ground and being surrounded by like-minded individuals is something...

Why People Misunderstand You (& What To Do About It)

Why People Misunderstand You (& What To Do About It)

When people misunderstand you, there are a lot of factors that can come into play here. This is a most unfortunate thing because it can lead people to see you...