Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
How To Feel Less Lonely & Be More Socially Active

How To Feel Less Lonely & Be More Socially Active

The want to feel less lonely is something a vast majority of us share. Loneliness is an absolutely dangerous thing. It can dampen our spirits. It can kill our self-esteem....

How To Properly Build Rapport With Anyone

How To Properly Build Rapport With Anyone

If you want to be able to connect and befriend anyone, you’ll first need to build rapport with them. This is an important first step in making new friends, but...

How To Be More Articulate

How To Be More Articulate

If you want to be heard whenever you speak, you’ll need to be more articulate. Being articulate means you can properly voice out your thoughts and have them be understood...

Be Popular Socially With These Tips

Be Popular Socially With These Tips

It’s completely normal to want to be popular to be more sociable. After all, most people are attracted to popular individuals. People are more interested in getting to know another...

What To Do If You’re In A One-Sided Friendship

What To Do If You’re In A One-Sided Friendship

Being in a one-sided friendship hurts. A friendship is a two-way street; it needs reciprocation to be a long-lasting and healthy relationship. As you grow older, it’s common for your...

What Is Inferiority Complex (& How To Overcome It)

What Is Inferiority Complex (& How To Overcome It)

One of the most terrible social anxieties a person can have is something called “inferiority complex.” It is something that destroys one’s self-esteem. It forbids them from ever socializing with...

How to Find Like-Minded People (& How To Befriend Them)

How to Find Like-Minded People (& How To Befriend Them)

One of the best ways to improve your social life is to find like-minded people. Like-minded people, of course, mean people who share certain beliefs, interests, and ideologies as you....

15 Ways to Get Along With Others

15 Ways to Get Along With Others

To properly get along with others is a trait every sociable person should have. It’s significantly more difficult to make friends if you can’t even get along with people, after...

How to Be a People Magnet and Attract People

How to Be a People Magnet and Attract People

You’ll want to be a people magnet and attract people if you want to make friends easier. A lot of socially adept people are natural at this, and now you...

If You Never Get Invited To Anything, Here’s What You Can Do

If You Never Get Invited To Anything, Here’s What You Can Do

It’s a tough situation to never get invited to anything. It makes you feel left out, it makes it so much harder for you to make friends, and it can...