Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
Banter And Wit: Everything You Need To Know

Banter And Wit: Everything You Need To Know

Banter and wit are two characteristics every socially adept person has. If you can adopt these characteristics as well, your social life will be all the better for it. Not...

14 Ways To Open Up To People

14 Ways To Open Up To People

It’s very important to know how to open up to people if you want to improve your social life. After all, it’s very difficult for people to get to know...

What Is A True Friend? Here Are 19 Signs That Point Them Out

What Is A True Friend? Here Are 19 Signs That Point Them Out

What is a true friend? Is it someone who always listens to your stories? Is it someone who constantly gives you gifts? Or is a true friend simply someone who...

Why You’re Bored and Lonely (And What To Do About It)

Why You’re Bored and Lonely (And What To Do About It)

When you’re constantly bored and lonely, this can lead to other, more serious complications. Not only will this seriously damage your social life, but it will also have a greater...

Why You Avoid People (And What To Do About It)

Why You Avoid People (And What To Do About It)

If you want to get a possible explanation as to why you avoid people, this article will definitely help you out. On top of this, we will also go over...

How to Know If Someone Wants To Be Your Friend

How to Know If Someone Wants To Be Your Friend

If you’re not that socially adept yet, it can be tricky to know if someone wants to be your friend. Not knowing this can cause you to miss the opportunity...

17 Ways To Be Yourself Around Others

17 Ways To Be Yourself Around Others

If you can be yourself around others, socializing will become more natural for you. After all, it’s exhausting keeping up with false appearances and wearing the face of another all...

9 Ways To Be More Memorable

9 Ways To Be More Memorable

One of the things you can do while socializing is to be memorable. This will allow you to make an impact on those you interact with. They’ll be more curious...

How To Be More Relaxed In Social Situations

How To Be More Relaxed In Social Situations

You’ll need to be relaxed in social situations if you want to socialize properly. However, this is much easier said than done. This is most especially true if you’re someone...

Why You Have The Fear of Making Friends (& How To Overcome It)

Why You Have The Fear of Making Friends (& How To Overcome It)

The fear of making friends is much more common than you think. It is puzzling, though, how something as incredible as making friends is also something certain individuals fear. If...