Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
How To Make Friends In A New City (+ a powerful technique)

How To Make Friends In A New City (+ a powerful technique)

Did you know…the BEST WAY to create friendships is NOT about being “always on” or always having “topics to talk about”? The fact is, you can learn just a few...

Feeling Lonely and Want to Change? Here’s How…

Feeling Lonely and Want to Change? Here’s How…

Feeling lonely is one of the worst emotional situations we know of. After you take care of your physical needs (food, shelter and security), your need for friendship can only...

Build a Friend Circle in 2 Steps

Build a Friend Circle in 2 Steps

Building a friend circle around you is THE BEST thing you can do for your social life. If you do it, you’ll never worry about loneliness or boredom again. In...

Be The Glue – A Killer Way To Make Friends

Be The Glue – A Killer Way To Make Friends

Hey, Friend,Getting the social life you want and the great experiences with the right friends – especially when you always had trouble making friends and being social – can be...

How To Be More Outgoing

How To Be More Outgoing

Hi, Friend, Do you know how to get in the mood for conversation, get talkative and be more outgoing… even though you’ve had a BAD day and even if you’ve...

Six Secrets Of Meeting New Friends

Six Secrets Of Meeting New Friends

Hi, Friend, Have you ever had someone meet you for the first time, talk to you in an open and excited way, give you their contact details, and acted like...

Your Requested Social Skills Newsletter

Your Requested Social Skills Newsletter

Hey Friend, Thanks for signing up for my free “Social Skills” email newsletter. I’m Paul Sanders, and I’ve spent the last several years figuring out how to be more successful...

Making Friends – Why Leaving It To Chance Doesn’t Work, and What To Do Instead

Making Friends – Why Leaving It To Chance Doesn’t Work, and What To Do Instead

Why Leaving Your Social Life To Chance Doesn’t Work… And What To Do Instead If you ask the average person “what do you do every week to meet new people...

How To Make Friends As An Adult Without Embarrassment – 3 Powerful Tips

How To Make Friends As An Adult Without Embarrassment – 3 Powerful Tips

Hi, Friend, In this article, I want to share with you 3 powerful tips on how to make friends as an adult. But if you’re so eager to get rid...

Party of 4, a new app to help you make friends with couples, if you’re a couple

Party of 4, a new app to help you make friends with couples, if you’re a couple

We’re happy to discover the Party of 4 app, an app for making friends with other couples. As we mentioned in our list of apps for making friends and our...