Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
“People Don’t Like Me” Feeling: What To Do About It

“People Don’t Like Me” Feeling: What To Do About It

“Why do I get the feeling that people don’t like me?” This is probably a question you’ve asked yourself many times. Let’s cover this topic in this article.

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Social Fears: What Are They & How To Face Them

Social Fears: What Are They & How To Face Them

Living in a world that can revolve around socializing with social fears is a horrible experience. Let’s talk about what it exactly is and how to face them.

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Shyness And Social Anxiety: The Differences

Shyness And Social Anxiety: The Differences

Many people believe that shyness and social anxiety are the exact same thing. I’m here to tell you otherwise. Let’s discuss their differences.

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20 Socially Awkward Mistakes To Avoid

20 Socially Awkward Mistakes To Avoid

Socially awkward mistakes are painful and weird and we’d rather not experience them at all. In this article, we’ll discuss how to avoid them.

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Solutions To Poor Social Skills

Solutions To Poor Social Skills

Having poor social skills is fairly common than you think. Nevertheless, it’s still something you need to handle if you want to make friends better.

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Socialize Again (After The Lockdown): How To Do It Properly

Socialize Again (After The Lockdown): How To Do It Properly

If you’re itching to socialize again once the lockdown is over and done, learn how to socialize properly first before you can finally go out.

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Feeling Lonely: What Does It Really Mean?

Feeling Lonely: What Does It Really Mean?

Everyone starts feeling lonely every once in a while, but the reason and the specific emotions that come with it are unique for everyone. 

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Ways To Be Less Nervous and Self-Conscious Around People

Ways To Be Less Nervous and Self-Conscious Around People

It’s very unnerving when you get self-conscious around people when you’re socializing. That’s what we’ll try to get rid of in this article.

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Making Excellent Conversation and Small Talk As An Introvert

Making Excellent Conversation and Small Talk As An Introvert

Making excellent conversation and small talk is important in every interaction. As an introvert, you’ll need to learn to do that.

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Beat Shyness As An Introvert

Beat Shyness As An Introvert

Experiencing shyness as an introvert, if you want to socialize more than you already are, can be a tough endeavor. Thats what we’ll tackle here.

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