Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
SELFISH FRIENDS – 6 Ways To Spot Them Before You Get Hurt

SELFISH FRIENDS – 6 Ways To Spot Them Before You Get Hurt

If you’re feeling that something wasn’t quite “right” with your past efforts to make friends and socialize, and the techniques you used brought very confusing results, I can help. As...

INTROVERT, And Feel Inferior To Extroverts? Here’s How To Stop

INTROVERT, And Feel Inferior To Extroverts? Here’s How To Stop

Hi, Friend, I want you to be completely supported and guided in your path to the social life of your dreams. That’s why I’ve put all my techniques and principles...

How to Overcome Shyness at a Party

How to Overcome Shyness at a Party

Dear friend… Did you know that shyness is a repetitive human habit? It’s actually an automatic reaction inside you, that happens on its own, without you even realize it as...

Secrets of Meeting New Friends

Secrets of Meeting New Friends

Friend, Did you know that the skill of meeting new people is CRITICAL when it comes to having good friends and avoiding loneliness? In fact, it is the skill that...

5 Simple Strategies to Making More Friends

5 Simple Strategies to Making More Friends

Hi, Friend, You probably feel that knowing how to make more friends is the key to having a great social circle, while avoiding getting lonely and feeling misunderstood. In this...

How You Can Get A New Circle Of Friends…

How You Can Get A New Circle Of Friends…

Hi, Friend,Some people think that NOT having a social circle, can potentially result in having crappy birthday parties or no birthday parties at all, just hanging out alone at the...

Crack the Code Behind “Being Cool”

Crack the Code Behind “Being Cool”

In this social skills newsletter, I’m going to show you how to “crack the code” behind what it means to be “Cool”. As you probably know, if people see you as...

Things to Talk About to Turn a Stranger into a Friend

Things to Talk About to Turn a Stranger into a Friend

Hello, this is Paul Sanders, I want to share with you what I think on How to turn a Stranger into a Friend… by talking! I don’t know exactly where...

What To Do If You Have No Friends

What To Do If You Have No Friends

Friend,If you have no friends, it feels like you’ll be lonely for life. But of course, that’s not true. You can still make new friends, even if you find yourself...

Why We Run Out Of Things To Say… And What To Do About It

Why We Run Out Of Things To Say… And What To Do About It

In this article, we’re going to deal with possibly the BIGGEST problem that you may face when meeting new people and making friends. In fact, it’s so frustrating that it...