Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
10 Tips On How To Text Someone You Haven’t Talked With In A Long Time

10 Tips On How To Text Someone You Haven’t Talked With In A Long Time

To text someone you haven’t interacted with in a while can come with challenges. Depending on why you stopped talking to each other in the first place, this process can...

Tips To Be Friends With An Introvert

Tips To Be Friends With An Introvert

If you want to be friends with an introvert, it’s important to step into their shoes by learning more about introversion. With enough knowledge, you’ll increase your chances of befriending...

How to Stop Being Embarrassed All The Time

How to Stop Being Embarrassed All The Time

If you feel embarrassed all the time, then you know how much this can damage your social life and stop you from building up your social skills. The foreboding feeling...

17 Ways To Make Friends After Moving

17 Ways To Make Friends After Moving

Learning how to make friends after moving is an important thing to do. Moving is not only a very stressful moment, but it is also a life-altering situation for a...

20 Ways To Build Self-Esteem

20 Ways To Build Self-Esteem

Learning how to build your self-esteem is a vital task if you want to improve your social skills. Depending on your self-esteem, your mind and courage will either enable or...

Stop Feeling Lonely Even With Friends

Stop Feeling Lonely Even With Friends

Loneliness is a physically and psychologically damaging state of mind—often confused with solitude or being alone. Just because someone is alone, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re lonely. Loneliness is about you...

How to Stop Being Sarcastic

How to Stop Being Sarcastic

Knowing how to stop being sarcastic is a challenge in and of itself to a naturally sarcastic individual. Whether your intention when using sarcasm in an interaction is sinister or...

How To Be More Authentic And Genuine

How To Be More Authentic And Genuine

To be authentic is to live your life the way you want it. Being in control of your life, instead of living other people’s dreams and expectations. It’s about aligning...

6 Effective Tips to Stop Rambling

6 Effective Tips to Stop Rambling

For you to stop rambling, you need to understand its effects and the reasons behind it. Rambling bores people out of the conversation. Instead of being interested enough to ask...

8 Ways to Deal With Boring Friends

8 Ways to Deal With Boring Friends

Boring friends make you want to stay at home and do some activity by yourself. It can be hard to confront them about it without offending them. Or maybe you’re...