Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
Is Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends And Influence People” Still  Relevant?

Is Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends And Influence People” Still Relevant?

Many people looking for ways to make friends end up reading Dale Carnegie’s book “How To Win Friends and Influence People.” While the book is a classic and should be read...

Ending Friendships And Building New Ones

Ending Friendships And Building New Ones

As a human being, you are constantly evolving in your personal life. At times, you may even start ending friendships to build new ones.

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How To Screw Up A Friendship

How To Screw Up A Friendship

If you found a great friend or a group of friends, you would be so happy about it that you’d think “We’re tight!” You may think that if the friendship...

7 Loneliness Facts You Probably Didn’t Know About

7 Loneliness Facts You Probably Didn’t Know About

While we all know that “loneliness is bad,” there is actually more to it. Often people tend to confuse it with depression, which is really a different beast. Let’s shed...

Improve Your Social Skills With These 3 Pro-Tips

Improve Your Social Skills With These 3 Pro-Tips

You probably know that there are actually cool people you’d actually want to get to know and befriend. So let’s polish up those social skills, let’s learn three tips to...

What To Do If You Don’t Want To Go Out Alone And Talk To Strangers

What To Do If You Don’t Want To Go Out Alone And Talk To Strangers

If you’ve been in a place where you’re not satisfied with your social life, then you know that sometimes, contacting the people already in your circle isn’t enough. You realize...

Turn Casual Conversations Into Friendships

Turn Casual Conversations Into Friendships

If you find yourself in many friendly conversations, but can’t seem to get to the next step and create a friendship, then this article is for you. A key to turning...

Bumble and Tinder For Friends… Good News, I Guess!

Bumble and Tinder For Friends… Good News, I Guess!

Looks like we have some good news here when it comes to more solutions to making new friends. There are more and more people in the app-making space who are...

How To Meet People In Denver, Colorado

How To Meet People In Denver, Colorado

In this page, let’s explore where to meet new people and make friends in Denver, Colorado. Below, you’ll find all kinds of ideas and places where you could go to...

Quick Note: Why Many People Despise Facebook’s #FriendsDay

Quick Note: Why Many People Despise Facebook’s #FriendsDay

You’ve heard of Facebook’s #FriendsDay. I wanted to share with you a quick note about why I think many people despise or even hate it.

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