Paul Sanders

Paul Sanders is an author, coach, and founder of GetTheFriendsYouWant.com. He's been writing and coaching on loneliness, shyness, social skills, conversation, friendship, and social life since 2011. He helped thousands of people change their social lives.
How To Be Friendly And Approachable

How To Be Friendly And Approachable

If you want to make good friends, you have to be friendly and be approachable. A good friendship can do you so so much good. You can live a much...

How To Be More Interesting

How To Be More Interesting

You don’t need to have an amazing to be a more interesting person. If you become more interesting, it will make your social skills work more effectively. There’s just something...

How To Know If You’re Socially Inept & How To Stop It

How To Know If You’re Socially Inept & How To Stop It

What does it mean to be socially inept? Social ineptitude is generally associated with social awkwardness, but it’s much more than that. Let’s learn what socially inept means and how...

How To Socialize Effectively

How To Socialize Effectively

Some people are natural at socializing, some don’t know how to socialize effectively at all. If you fall under the latter, this article is for you.

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How To Improve Your Social Skills

How To Improve Your Social Skills

This article is dedicated to helping you improve your social skills. Continue reading and you’ll find the tips and methods that will help. If you want to improve your outlook...

9 Tips To Master The Art Of Conversation

9 Tips To Master The Art Of Conversation

Conversation is an essential social skill, but did you know that it can also be considered an art? The art of conversation is about going beyond good communication, and getting...

6 Solutions To “I Don’t Know What To Say”

6 Solutions To “I Don’t Know What To Say”

Have you ever wondered why you get stuck, thinking “I don’t know what to say!” All the while you see many people who always seem to know what say and...

Master Group Conversations

Master Group Conversations

As you probably know, group conversations are a big part of socializing. Let’s learn how to contribute in group conversations, avoiding being quiet in them, and how to get better...

Make Deep & Meaningful Conversations

Make Deep & Meaningful Conversations

If you’d like to have a deep conversation, or a meaningful one, you need to understand how they work. In this article, you’ll learn how to initiate and carry meaningful...

Interesting Things to Talk About with Friends

Interesting Things to Talk About with Friends

If you’re looking for interesting things to talk about with friends, then this article is for you. You can use the lists below many times as you socialize with friends,...