WEBVTT Kind: captions Language: en 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.980 Hi this is Paul Sanders. You're about to learn secrets most people will never 00:00:04.980 --> 00:00:08.640 know about making friends and having a social life. 00:00:08.640 --> 00:00:15.980 Several years ago in my life, I was shy I was isolated I didn't feel like I fit in with regular people. 00:00:15.980 --> 00:00:19.960 So I had to do whatever it takes and learn how to get a social life. 00:00:19.960 --> 00:00:25.740 So I read articles, I read books, I listened to audio programs. But none of it worked for me. 00:00:25.740 --> 00:00:29.760 It was vague - it worked sometimes, it didn't work other times, and there was no 00:00:29.760 --> 00:00:34.460 plan on how to go from loneliness to having the friends I wanted in my life. 00:00:34.560 --> 00:00:38.960 Then I started learning from some people who were very good at moving to a new 00:00:38.969 --> 00:00:45.180 city and creating a new social circle, from scratch, within just a few weeks. 00:00:45.180 --> 00:00:48.420 So I started learning from them and observing them. 00:00:48.420 --> 00:00:52.320 So I learned: Where to go to find the right potential friends 00:00:52.320 --> 00:00:55.140 How to go to a social gathering, feel welcome 00:00:55.140 --> 00:00:59.670 feel at home and not have that impression that you're gonna go there 00:00:59.670 --> 00:01:02.500 and everybody's gonna look at you like you don't belong there. 00:01:02.500 --> 00:01:07.740 I learned how to start a conversation in a natural way without feeling like you have to prepare 00:01:07.740 --> 00:01:12.510 something. And even better, I also learned how to get others to start 00:01:12.510 --> 00:01:14.080 conversations with you. 00:01:14.080 --> 00:01:16.640 I learned not only to keep a conversation going 00:01:16.650 --> 00:01:21.810 and avoid the awkward silence, but also how to get it to be more and more 00:01:21.810 --> 00:01:25.660 interesting, instead of getting boring and hitting a dead end. 00:01:25.660 --> 00:01:29.700 I learned how to talk so people listen 00:01:29.720 --> 00:01:32.600 turn toward you and give you their full attention 00:01:32.600 --> 00:01:37.020 instead of being distracted by the environment and pretending to listen. 00:01:37.020 --> 00:01:41.880 I also learned how to quickly find things in common with people and use that as an 00:01:41.880 --> 00:01:46.220 opportunity to exchange contact information so you can meet again later. 00:01:46.220 --> 00:01:51.000 This is what I call a "hook point" and if you use it, you'll start to see that 00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:56.080 others as well ask for your contact info to meet again as soon as possible. 00:01:56.600 --> 00:02:01.860 I also learned the process and the steps to get from strangers to friends and then from 00:02:01.860 --> 00:02:03.560 friends to close friends. 00:02:03.560 --> 00:02:05.940 I want to share with you the process so you can go out 00:02:05.940 --> 00:02:08.380 there and find the right people for you. 00:02:08.800 --> 00:02:10.920 I learned what makes friends break apart 00:02:10.920 --> 00:02:15.890 and how to avoid that so you can keep friends and not just lose them after a 00:02:15.890 --> 00:02:20.990 short while. I want to show you how you can join an existing group of friends or 00:02:20.990 --> 00:02:25.940 just create your own. And the great thing about this is that you can have multiple 00:02:25.940 --> 00:02:30.900 social circles, depending on your goals your interests and hobbies. 00:02:31.580 --> 00:02:36.860 See in the past, I felt like I had to do a lot of work to keep my social life just alive 00:02:36.860 --> 00:02:41.870 then I discovered how you can get others to keep inviting you so you're not the 00:02:41.870 --> 00:02:47.240 only one doing all the work of making plans, contacting people, and trying to 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:49.180 get them to go out and do something. 00:02:49.180 --> 00:02:52.860 So I took all those techniques, principles, and lessons, 00:02:52.860 --> 00:02:57.320 and I created a system that anyone can use to get the friends they want. 00:02:57.320 --> 00:03:01.420 So if you're in a place where you don't have the friends you want or you 00:03:01.420 --> 00:03:05.660 have people who are not very encouraging or you don't feel that they can help you 00:03:05.660 --> 00:03:10.500 achieve any of your goals personally and professionally, then this is for you. All 00:03:10.500 --> 00:03:14.120 you have to do is enter your name and email below and enter. 00:03:14.800 --> 00:03:20.540 This is about having more freedom in your social life. It's not about how to fit with people 00:03:20.540 --> 00:03:25.310 you don't even like. It's about finding the right friends, who will enjoy your 00:03:25.310 --> 00:03:29.880 company who will understand you, and appreciate you for who you are. 00:03:29.880 --> 00:03:35.420 So I'll also share with you a report about the 7 most common mistakes, people 00:03:35.420 --> 00:03:40.920 make, that keep them isolated and lonely and how to avoid that and what to do instead. 00:03:40.920 --> 00:03:45.760 So enter your name and email below and let's get started!